1. Weddings celebrations are a time for friends and family to enjoy and celebrate this wonderful occasion. You’re going to have guest with different music taste, so don’t expect to please everyone. What’s important is that both Bride & Groom are pleased with the selections and choices they’ve made for their celebration. It is recommended that you create and provide a playlist of your favorite songs weeks in advance so the DJ doesn’t have to scramble to get a song you request on the day of. Sticking to one genre of music is probably not a good idea either. You can also put together a list of “Do Not Play” songs or genres that you deem not suitable for your style of music or your guest. Don’t forget the “Must Play” songs that you want to hear as well. All of this is key in making your special day memorable.
2. Please note that your wedding reception is not a nightclub. Volume control is important! Feel free to request volume control during certain parts of your celebration. Some of your guest may want to talk with other guest and they shouldn’t have to compete with the music that is playing in the background. Typically, music is played at a lower volume during cocktail hour and dinner. But do expect the volume to be turned up when it’s time to get everyone on the dance floor!
3. Make sure your DJ / Band understands the importance of playing clean music during the reception. Remember that Grandma, Grandpa, your parents, your boss and small children are in attendance. You can leave the raunchy stuff for the after party if you’re having one. You should also leave the bedroom music for, well the honeymoon. You should also consider the song, lyrics and meaning for the occasion. You definitely don’t want to leave a bad distasteful impression on your guest.

Remember, that a DJ will have a world of music at his disposal with tons of variety and also typically cost less than a live band. If you have a small venue space, you should consider that when choosing your choice of DJ or Live Band. I hope you find this information helpful in preparing you for your celebration!

Joshua 1:5-7 (NIV) 5 No one will be able to stand against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so I will be with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you. 6 Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their ancestors to give them. 7 “Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go.

God reminded Joshua that it wasn’t going to be easy but strength was to be found in God’s presence. The more God is the ruler of your life, the more you will see him opening doors that no man can shut. You will encounter people who will try to keep you from reaching the Promised Land; you will encounter people you will try to make your life impossible, you will encounter people who will come against you, you will encounter people who are going to be jealous of you, you will encounter people who will want to remind you of your past! But God is reminding you today that your success, your victory will come when you focus and listen and follow God! Focus on God, not people! Its time to move forward and possess the blessing God has in store for each of us! It’s time you moved! The choice is yours! Give up, give in or give it all you’ve got!